I am a woman over 40. I am also plus-sized, and comfortable with my life.?

I have had many friends try to talk me into dating again. I went through a divorce two years ago; I am rebuilding my life, as well as getting ready to "empty nest" in the next three years. Is it normal to not be bothered right now (working on life after a divorce and a foreclosure), as well as enjoying being alone? I like the fact that I don't have to share the remote, clean up after a partner, go where I want, and eat what I want, when I want. I am also working on bettering my financial and home situation, as well as my physical appearance (starting to exercise, getting dental work, etc.). Any thoughts?